We recently discussed how technology really affects the way we connect. The things we heard—one celebrating easy connection, the other lamenting superficiality—perfectly sum up the dichotomy of the digital age.
Firstly, one of the greatest benefits of technology is its ability to annihilate distance. Some of my friends mentioned that technology makes connections easier. We may connect with our friends and family members wherever they live. Tools like video calls and instant messaging allow us to maintain crucial relationships with family overseas and friends who move away, fostering a sense of closeness that transcends distance. Furthermore, the internet enables us to join niche global communities, making it possible to find and interact with people who share our specific interests, regardless of location. So, these are the positive comments for technology.
Despite the ease of connection, technology often presents us with the paradox of superficial socialising. As one classmate noted, having hundreds of digital friends means nothing; it means you don’t have any real friends except non-internet ones. They mention that these platforms make us focus on quantity, not quality. We spend too much time curating a perfect online image, which creates pressure and often leads to comparison and loneliness. A simple ‘like’ or comment can never replace the true empathy and depth of a shared, in-person moment.
Ultimately, technology is a powerful tool, but its influence on our social lives depends entirely on how we use it. We must be mindful users, not passive consumers. The goal should be to use our digital connections to supplement and strengthen our real-world bonds, not to replace them. By prioritising meaningful, face-to-face time, we can ensure technology genuinely enhances our friendships rather than just filling our screens.